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Le chemin de la parentalité positive : un changement en profondeur… - Les 6 doigts de la main
“Pensez qu’à tout moment vos interactions avec vos enfants reposent soit sur l’exercice d’un pouvoir SUR eux, soit sur l’exercice d’un pouvoir AVEC eux.”
Sura Hart et Victoria Kindle Hodson, Parents respectueux, enfants respectueux .
Vers laquelle de ces alternatives désirons-nous tendre ?
Il est probable que tout soit là, comme je le soulevais déjà dans cet autre article tournant autour de la notion de pouvoir .
Quand nous cherchons à changer notre mode de fonctionnement en éducation, il nous faut réussir à passer au dessus des modèles reçus. Réussir à modifier notre posture en profondeur .
C’est probablement cet exercice qui est le plus difficile.
Lorsque j’ai commencé à suivre le chemin de la parentalité positive, je n’avais pas conscience que ce n’était pas seulement m’armer d’outils pour aider à développer l’harmonie de la famille, mais que j’avançais également vers des termes tels que coopération, respect, considération…
Des termes que chacun apprécie, que tous considèrent positivement, mais qui sont dans la pratique bien moins appliqués que ce que l’on pourrait espérer.
Car lorsque les parents demandent la coopération de leurs enfants, sont-ils bien eux-mêmes dans une attitude de coopération aux besoins de leurs enfants ?
Lire encore et encore est probablement ma manière personnelle de faire pénétrer le message. Une partie de mon enseignement se joue au niveau de l’inconscient. Je sens que ma posture change, sans toujours en identifier les déclencheurs.
Car chacun a son approche pour traduire ce changement de modèle :
Quand je lis Jane Nelsen, je sens que mon message face à mon enfant est : “Je suis dans ton équipe.”
Quand je lis Faber et Mazlish, je m’ouvre à la connexion par l’écoute emphatique.
Quand je lis Thomas Gordon, j’envisage enfin une éducation “sans perdant”.
Quand je lis Marshall Rosenberg, j’appréhende l’équivalence des besoins de chacun.
Peut-être que cette lecture variée, qui me nourrit, vous inspirera.
Si vous pensez que cela peut être le cas, faites donc un tour par ma bibliothèque .
Si la lecture de ces ouvrages n’est pas votre tasse de thé, ou que vous manquez de temps, le format blog peut être un bon compromis.
L’échange avec d’autres parents qui ont les mêmes valeurs également !
Nous vivons dans un monde qui tourne plus souvent autour de la notion de compétition que de celle de coopération.
J’aspire à offrir un autre modèle à mes enfants.
J’ai basculé dans une parentalité consciente du long terme , dans laquelle je m’interroge sur les effets de nos choix éducatifs.
Car je suis pénétrée par le principe suivant :
“La manière dont vous élevez votre enfant n’influera pas seulement sur lui, mais sur la vie de centaines, voire de milliers de personnes qu’il rencontrera dans l’avenir. Vous ne pouvez pas choisir d’exercer ou non une influence sur cette situation d’interdépendance, mais vous pouvez choisir QUELLE influence vous exercez.”
Sura Hart et Victoria Kindle Hodson, Parents respectueux, enfants respectueux .
Et c’est parce que je crois en l’être humain que je cherche à partager cette aspiration, le plus possible, et que je voudrais vous encourager à faire de même.
Pour que, pas à pas, nous changions le monde.
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Oui Coralie, la parentalité positive est pour moi aussi un changement de posture. Et je crois que c est encore plus difficile que d acquérir de nouveaux outils, car le changement se fait en profondeur et pas du jour au lendemain ni sur simple décision. C est un VRAI travail sur soi pour ne plus appliquer des outils mais VIVRE nos valeurs.
Voilà, exactement. Au début, les outils apparaissent sans que le changement commence, puis, les interrogations émergent, et l’on s’aperçoit qu’on s’est mis à raisonner différemment. Et même, parfois, je me rends compte que mes attitudes ne sont pas encore en ligne avec mon changement plus profond… Parce que les outils s’acquièrent de manière différente ! Patience, patience…